{"id":243,"date":"2008-09-05T11:32:55","date_gmt":"2008-09-05T10:32:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.weirdbutinagoodway.co.uk\/blog\/?p=243"},"modified":"2010-05-08T21:55:33","modified_gmt":"2010-05-08T20:55:33","slug":"one-one-one-three","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weirdbutinagoodway.co.uk\/blog\/2008\/09\/05\/one-one-one-three\/","title":{"rendered":"one + one + one = three"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/moblog.net\/\" target=\"_blank\">Moblog <\/a>user are taking part in a project &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/moblog.net\/Interview52\/\" target=\"_blank\">Interview52<\/a>&#8221; inspired by <a href=\"http:\/\/moblog.net\/nige\/\" target=\"_blank\">Nige<\/a>, Each week a different moblogger will have to post a photograph and answer a series of questions about themselves.<\/p>\n<p>This week was my turn and here&#8217;s my entry:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moblog.net\/media\/i\/n\/t\/interview52\/one-one-one-three.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moblog.net\/media\/i\/n\/t\/interview52\/one-one-one-three.jpg?resize=387%2C516\" alt=\"\" width=\"387\" height=\"516\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">An old picture but one that sums me up, Converse and my family!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>*Where does this find you? Tell us the story of how you got there.* <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well right now as I&#8217;m writing this it&#8217;s Thursday evening and I&#8217;m at home, But<br \/>\nby the time it&#8217;s posted it shall be Friday morning so I&#8217;ll be at work in<br \/>\nWolverhampton City Centre and I shall have arrived here on the bus from my<br \/>\nhome 20 minutes away in the area I grew up in. I&#8217;m a yam yam born and bred,<br \/>\nI have lived in other places (Lichfield (too pretentious)and Wigan (Too<br \/>\nRough)) but I returned &#8220;home&#8221; when I realised there really is no place<br \/>\nlike it!<\/p>\n<p><em>* Why do you moblog?* <\/em><\/p>\n<p>I started moblogging as a way to pass the time when I was a poor lonely<br \/>\nsingle girl living alone with no one but the blonde kid for company.<\/p>\n<p>James introduced me to it before &#8220;we&#8221; were &#8220;us&#8221; taking me into Birmingham<br \/>\nwith a selection of Spied cards and I was hooked straight away, It&#8217;s so much<br \/>\nfun, kinda combining social networking with a hobby! Along with TBK telling<br \/>\neveryone we were getting married before we&#8217;d even smiled at each other in<br \/>\nTHAT way maybe moblog was party responsible for the creating of James and me<br \/>\nas &#8220;us&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p><em>* What were you hoping not to be asked for interview52?* <\/em><\/p>\n<p>The typical Interview question used in lots of job interviews, Describe<br \/>\nyourself in 3 words&#8230;.<br \/>\n<em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>* Now answer it!* <\/em><\/p>\n<p>DOH! shoulda seen this coming. I&#8217;ll use the answer i gave in my last job<br \/>\ninterview<\/p>\n<p>LOUD, TALKATIVE and TENACIOUS &#8211; and they still gave me the job!<\/p>\n<p><em>* What question would you like to ask the next moblog interviewee?* <\/em><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not going say now as with the new interview 52 rules I&#8217;m going to get<br \/>\nthe chance to ask what I want! &#8211;<\/p>\n<p>oh new rules everyone says what are they??<\/p>\n<p>WELL:<br \/>\nThe week after the last interview with FF when there was no interview I<br \/>\nthough hmm thats strange, then the week after that when again there was<br \/>\nstill no interview i though hmm even stranger It&#8217;s not like Nige to start<br \/>\nsomething and not finish it,  so I emailed him something along the line of<br \/>\n&#8220;Oi you, giving up already?&#8221; and it transpires that Nige is a busy busy bee<br \/>\nand time had just ran away with him.<br \/>\nOrganising questions and participants whilst running around the Notting Hill<br \/>\nFestival and generally having much fun was a time consuming thing so with<br \/>\nrevised rules and with me being next on the &#8220;hit list&#8221; and silly enough to<br \/>\nwonder why he&#8217;d stopped he sent them to me&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>From hence forward the interviewee will become the interviewer for the next<br \/>\nwilling victim&#8230;.So once you&#8217;ve read this today I will be on a hunt to find<br \/>\nsomeone to take part next . Then I will forward the list of questions and<br \/>\ninstructions how to post on BUT<\/p>\n<p>I will have to CHANGE AT LEAST ONE of the questions in the list<\/p>\n<p>And so it will go on &#8211; my interviewee will become the interviewer, finding<br \/>\nthe next participant and again changing AT LEAST ONE of the questions before<br \/>\nthey forward it on. So taking the onus off Nige, continuing the project and<br \/>\ngiving it a life of it&#8217;s own!<\/p>\n<p>So who want to be next use email\/text\/contact button to get in touch<\/p>\n<p><em>* What do you think your job was in your previous life? Tell us why..*. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>I think I must have been a psychologist\/guidance counselor in a previous<br \/>\nlife, for some reason I&#8217;m usually the Agony Aunt, Dishing out advise to all<br \/>\nand sundry my friend Nicky seems to seek my advise on everything and even my<br \/>\nlocal shop keeper stops me in the shop and asks for marriage counseling &#8211;<br \/>\nAnd I&#8217;ve never even been married.<\/p>\n<p>James reckons I was Pippa from Home and Away. I love kids and we&#8217;ve usually<br \/>\ngot a houseful of TBK friends, I&#8217;ve worked as a youth worker, I&#8217;ve helped<br \/>\nout at school, taking part in sleep overs, &amp; going on trips, He thinks<br \/>\n(quite rightly) that I&#8217;d have a horde of my own given the opportunity<\/p>\n<p><em>*Whats the story behind your moblog username? Why did you choose it?* <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Oh everyone knows this as I answered it on spikes moblog ages ago:<\/p>\n<p>Essitam is Matisse backwards, It&#8217;s been my online name since school when in<br \/>\nan IT class the teaches asked us to think of a username.All the &#8220;cool kids&#8221;<br \/>\nwere calling themselves &#8220;Sexygal1994&#8221; or &#8220;hotchick&#8221; and as I was neither a<br \/>\ncool kid, sexy girl or an hot chick I wanted something different.<br \/>\nInspiration was at hand with a huge Matisse display on the wall i was<br \/>\nsitting next to. I wrote it down, I then rewrote it backwards and is stuck!<br \/>\n<em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>* What was your childhood obsession? What happened to it?* <\/em><\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t have one &#8211; seriously. I even called my mom when I read this<br \/>\nquestion to find out if she could remember something I&#8217;d forgotten, The only<br \/>\nthing she could come up with was I used to like emptying ashtrays into the<br \/>\ndustbin, Which apparently amused her no end as neither of my parents smoked<br \/>\nand my dad only ever threw loose change in there and according to her I just<br \/>\none day stopped doing it aged around 3.<\/p>\n<p><em>*Where do you go to my lovely, when you&#8217;re alone in your head? (Filbert<br \/>\nFox&#8217; question)* <\/em><\/p>\n<p>I try not to spend too much time alone in my head I find it a pretty<br \/>\nworrying place at times!<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s not avoidance either, I&#8217;m being serious. I suffer autophobia<br \/>\n(J.F.G.I.) as a symptom of stress\/depression caused (according to the people<br \/>\nin the know) by the sudden death of my Dad when I was just a little Steph.<br \/>\nSo I avoid being left alone for too long when I can help it. I&#8217;m better now<br \/>\nthan I used to be. At one point the panic attacks were so bad I would be<br \/>\nphysically sick &#8211; now I just sulk lots and get snappy if I&#8217;m left alone for<br \/>\ntoo long!<\/p>\n<p><em><br \/>\n*If you had to draw a moblog family (and friend) tree, who would you be<br \/>\nlinked to, and how?* <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Oh now this could be quite interesting, If i were to be literal about this<br \/>\nthen there is:<\/p>\n<p>James<br \/>\nTBK<br \/>\nGoonflower<br \/>\nNickyC<br \/>\nMiguel Sanchez<br \/>\nStato<br \/>\nHippyJack<\/p>\n<p>Who are all really (or via James) related to me in some way and registered<br \/>\nmobloggers and then real life friends (as in people I see in the flesh with<br \/>\nthe family mobloggers)<\/p>\n<p>Dicko &#8211; although I&#8217;m sure he should fall under family<br \/>\nhighwirer<br \/>\naj1905<br \/>\nRich (not the one with Elvis)<br \/>\nshrontthebaron<br \/>\nbaronshubby<br \/>\nGhostMonk08<br \/>\nSpongvid<\/p>\n<p>Then there are the mobloggers who I&#8217;ve met in person purely through moblog,<br \/>\nat meets, if cafes (Dhamaka) in shopping centres (Nige) etc. I&#8217;m not going<br \/>\nto list them all as I&#8217;ve already rambled on too much but my ultimate moblog<br \/>\nfamily are my ultimate real life family:<\/p>\n<p>Me + James + The Blonde Kid<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/moblog.net\/essitam\/\">Steph xxx<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Moblog user are taking part in a project &#8220;Interview52&#8221; inspired by Nige, Each week a different moblogger will have to post a photograph and answer a series of questions about themselves. This week was my turn and here&#8217;s my entry: An old picture but one that sums me up, Converse and my family! *Where does &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weirdbutinagoodway.co.uk\/blog\/2008\/09\/05\/one-one-one-three\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">one + one + one = three<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[109,63,64,102,104,105,1],"tags":[230,557,558,80,227,555],"class_list":["post-243","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-facts-about-me","category-family","category-friends","category-home","category-parenting","category-the-blonde-kid","category-wbiagw","tag-facts","tag-family","tag-friends","tag-happiness","tag-love","tag-moblog"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6WGy-3V","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":155,"url":"https:\/\/www.weirdbutinagoodway.co.uk\/blog\/2007\/04\/19\/the-internet-bringing-people-together\/","url_meta":{"origin":243,"position":0},"title":"The Internet bringing people together&#8230;","date":"April 19, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"...But I still don't know their names!This Saturday is the Midland Moblog Meet. 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