{"id":1723,"date":"2014-10-20T14:54:36","date_gmt":"2014-10-20T13:54:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.weirdbutinagoodway.co.uk\/blog\/?p=1723"},"modified":"2014-10-20T14:54:36","modified_gmt":"2014-10-20T13:54:36","slug":"so-this-hurts-more-than-a-just-a-little-bit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weirdbutinagoodway.co.uk\/blog\/2014\/10\/20\/so-this-hurts-more-than-a-just-a-little-bit\/","title":{"rendered":"So – this hurts more than a just a little bit."},"content":{"rendered":"

My son didn’t have a security blanket when he was younger. No scrap of blanket that we couldn’t wrangle from his grip, or a teddy we had to magic away in the night to wash and dry lest he realise it had disappeared, so I’ve never *really* understood the seeming emotional turmoil these youngsters went through when they favourite blankie was gone…..Until now.<\/p>\n

In the last week my world has been turned upside down and my security blanket hasn’t just been taken away for a wash, it’s been stolen. Yanked from my grip with me kicking and screaming and I am completely and utterly devastated.\u00a0My family – the most important thing in the world to me have been cut in two by just one person via a simple text message and it feels as though\u00a0things can never be the same again.<\/p>\n

I’m bereft with no solution in sight and the person who is the ONLY person who can move towards fixing this, is also the person who is is responsible for breaking it in the first place, and they’re so willingly\u00a0oblivious to not only the pain they’ve caused me but the ramifications of their actions to us all they’re\u00a0completely unprepared to even try and face what they’ve done.<\/p>\n

I’m heartbroken over what all this could mean.<\/p>\n

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My son didn’t have a security blanket when he was younger. No scrap of blanket that we couldn’t wrangle from his grip, or a teddy we had to magic away in the night to wash and dry lest he realise it had disappeared, so I’ve never *really* understood the seeming emotional turmoil these youngsters went … Continue reading So – this hurts more than a just a little bit.<\/span> →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[63],"tags":[526,557,525],"class_list":["post-1723","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","tag-arguement","tag-family","tag-hurt"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6WGy-rN","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1765,"url":"https:\/\/www.weirdbutinagoodway.co.uk\/blog\/2015\/07\/30\/ive-been-thinking\/","url_meta":{"origin":1723,"position":0},"title":"I’ve been thinking","date":"July 30, 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"I watched the Northern Lights in Iceland and trekked 10km around the lakes at the foot of Matterhorn on the 150th Anniversary of the first accent to its summit. 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